Paying for bridal party accommodations for destination wedding

We are having a casual, low-budget wedding at a beach town about 300 miles from home. Our two attendants will be traveling with their families (spouse & 2 children each) and are planning to extend their stay to combine our wedding with a family vacation. Most of the accommodations in this area.... [Read more]

How do i find out who is paying for wedding attendant's hotel?

I'm traveling from out of town to be an attendant in a friend's wedding. When she was in mine, we paid for her hotel for 4 nights. She has offered to have me stay at her apartment for the first two nights I am there and then when my husband arrives, we will stay at a hotel. I have been assuming.... [Read more]

Wedding party lodging

I am getting married and I have a lot of bridesmaids. Several of the girls live out of town. Am I responsible for paying for their hotel rooms for the weekend? I have been in several of their weddings in the past and none of them have provided hotel rooms...I just don't want to have bad.... [Read more]

Who pays for the flowergirl's lodging??

I am having a destination wedding in the Bahamas and my niece is going to be the flowergirl. I have been reading how it is proper for the bride and groom to pay for the bridal party's lodging... My sister is not part of the bridal party, so my question is this... do I offer to for my neice's part.... [Read more]

Confused about who pays for lodging

After reading several replies, I now know that it is 'proper ettiquette' for the wedding party's lodging to be paid for by the wedding couple. I didn't realize this before. I am having a destination wedding and all in our wedding party are making a vacation out of the trip and staying 1 week. A.... [Read more]